Rup and Esther...ON OUR WAY...
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Original: 2/22/2009 9:50 PM
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Sunday, February 22, 2009

 another minor milestone today...

i cooked my first full meal in "esther's kitchen" tonight.  it's probably been the toughest room for me to spend time in since esther's passing. she loved to cook and find new recipes..the kitchen was her refuge.  maybe ive eaten one meal at the kitchen table in the last 7 months..cooked some dumplings or pre-made foods..reheated food.  but havent dug through the fridge and cabinets looking for ingredients.  may seem like a simple task, but it wasnt easy to get thru.  most of the stuff in the freezer and cabinets is still stuff she bought..and i could tell u what she would cook with everything in there.
didnt help that i havent grocery shopped in months (i think 1 trip each to shoprite and costco)..not much to work with..haha.  next step will be to cook the simple recipes esther was trying to teach me her last few months to prepare me for life on my own. she made me cook with her by my side telling me what to do..then she would randomly quiz me on the recipes. she even wrote some of them down for me when she was getting treatments at NIH.  she was always concerned id still eat healthily. 

dont worry about me baby!  im doin ok!


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Man you make me shed a tear ...
Thanks for the update though.
Posted 2/23/2009 8:37 AM by paikimchung Xanga True Member - recommend - reply

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thanks for the update, rupdidu! :) i've been "forced" to think about Lingo a lot recently through grieve support classes....seems like i've been in denial since she left us. i miss being close to you guys in NJ.
Posted 2/23/2009 11:20 AM by jalusan - recommend - reply

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thanks for sharing, happy to read your sharing!
Posted 2/23/2009 5:00 PM by begin_in_Christ - recommend - reply

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you make me sad whenever you share, but i like when you do.

what did you cook? :)
Posted 3/1/2009 12:11 AM by nOgReAtErLoVe - recommend - reply

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i still remember how proud she was when she told me about how you can cooked. how she wanted you to repeaat the recipes and how you did it all right.  i miss her deeply and still can't go through the IMs. :(
Posted 3/2/2009 10:49 AM by enzi - recommend - reply

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I still remember the peach bread pudding that you made.  It was delicious.  Keep on going on, Rupert. 
Posted 3/10/2009 10:06 PM by antie - recommend - reply

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I just wanted to let you know that I'm still praying for you, Rupert. It took me months to cook my first real meal too. It was "my" kitchen - but it wasn't the same without my favorite person to cook for. Lots of hugs for you...
Posted 3/31/2009 11:14 AM by bluegirlPA - recommend - reply

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This is one of the sweetest things I ever read. I have been avoiding this site ever since Esther left because it makes me so sad to hear her voice. I guess grief share and the wedding planning finally being over is making me spend more time thinking about Esther and missing her. Thanks for sharing these personal things on here. It helps to read them. I think Esther was the best wife ever. How does she even think to teach you to cook while she was so sick? If I ever get that sick, I think I will be way more selfish than that...
Posted 10/26/2009 10:32 PM by akpenguins - recommend - reply


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